Post-Divorce Levels of Reconciliation
Reflecting degrees of contribution-to-the-problem ownership  ... 
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Level 0. No Contact


Level 1. Acknowledging Presence


Level 2. Cordial Greeting 


Level 3. Business-like


Level 4. Small Talk


Level 5. Event Invitation 


Level 6. Substantive Conversation


Level 7. Friendship 


Level 8. Affection 


Level 9. Courtship 


Level 10. Full Restoration of the Marriage 







These levels of post-divorce reconciliation reflect the degree to which one or both parties are willing to own up to the impact that their harmful words, actions, and decisions had on the other person. 


If the remarriage of either party has occurred, Levels 7 through 10 are off the table ... 

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